Living as an Introvert in an Extroverted Culture

Modern culture tends to favor extroverts, viewing introverts as quiet, aloof, difficult to talk to, or even downright rude. Introverts have a hard-enough time interacting with people just due to their nature, and this stereotype doesn’t help. Despite this, with the right frame of mind, introverts have a distinct advantage over their more extroverted peers.

Introverts are thoughtful
While others may criticize you for not wanting to participate, you’ll be less likely to be accused of being clingy or disruptive. Introverts like to have their own space, and as a result, tend to respect the space of others. Introverts are also more likely to think before they act or speak.

Introverts are creative
Extroverts, by their nature, tend to follow the crowd, while introverts tend to seek the places and ideas away from the crowd. Because of this, introverts develop their own ideas and insights without being influenced by trends.

Introverts are cautious
Introverts tend to stay on the sidelines of social events. While this viewpoint may seem boring to the outsider, it gives the introvert more of an opportunity to observe and reflect. Because of this, introverts often have a deeper understanding of the world around them and of human behavior.

Introverts are good listeners
Introverts are generally more receptive and prefer to take in information than to share it. Because of this, when you are talking with an introvert, they are paying close attention to what you are saying. They are also unlikely to share what you tell them with others. For this reason, many people are comfortable confiding in introverts.

Introverts are focused
Spending a lot of time alone, without the distractions involved in a busy social life, gives introverts the ability to focus on an activity for an extended period. This allows the introvert to become highly proficient in any field they desire.

Introverts are independent
Where extroverts often work better in teams where they can be around other people, introverts are more self-sufficient. Because of this, introverts work well without supervision and can generally be trusted to get the job done without being distracted by socializing with others. Introverts are empowered by being allowed to manage challenges on their own.
If you are an introvert, what strengths would you add to this list? If being an introvert has made it difficult for you to find your place in the world, try focusing on these strengths. It may seem odd to extroverts, but there is nothing wrong with preferring your own company. Often times, people look around at the “norm” to judge themselves. If you think about it, who puts that information about the “norms” out there… extroverts. So when you judge yourself based on societies norms, you may need to consider that it doesn’t take into consideration everyone out there. In fact, there is a “world introvert day” where introverts are celebrated. Think about it. Out of 365 days in a year, introverts are thought of for one of those days. So when you are comparing yourself to the “norm”…. don’t.