Category: Sexual Identity and Gender Identity

How gender stereotypes affect gay and lesbian relationships (but they don’t have to). Written by a lesbian therapist in Long Beach.

How gender stereotypes affect gay and lesbian relationships In a gay or lesbian relationship, gender stereotypes can have a negative impact. Stereotypically speaking, gay men are often depicted as weak, flamboyant, or over-the-top. Lesbians, on the other hand, are portrayed as masculine, butch, or strong. Yet, what happens when those stereotypes are applied in a

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Why Gender Neutral Bathrooms Are Important

  Why Gender Neutral Bathrooms Are Important Recently, I heard a story of a young child who was in Kindergarten (this is a true story). They were trying to figure out their gender.  They were born into a female body, but they felt like a boy inside.  This child was not asking to be called

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How do I explain a gay family member to my kids?

How do I explain a gay family member to my kids? A lot of people seem to have this question, however typically kids are okay with what their parents are okay with.  So, unless they ask, you don’t have to explain it.  If you were going to visit your straight relative who has a heterosexual

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Things To Know Before You Start Hormone Therapy

Things To Know Before You Start Hormone Therapy If you’re just beginning your transition, it’s a meaningful time. But it’s also a time of uncertainty.  Odds are, there aren’t many people around you who can tell you what to expect.  Hormone therapy is one of the most important steps of the process.  When you’re in

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Tips On Coming Out To Your Family As Bisexual

Tips On Coming Out To Your Family As Bisexual Many people think coming out as bisexual is the same as coming out as gay or lesbian. Some even think it’s easier. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. Unlike gay people, bisexual people face prejudice and misunderstanding within the community as well as outside.

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Finding A Gay Friendly Therapist In Long Beach

Finding A Gay Friendly Therapist In Long Beach Whether or not you are out of the closet with your parents, friends, or at work; having your therapist understand the issues that are unique to you is important.  You should not ever feel uncomfortable talking (about relationship issues, sex, having children) while you are meeting with

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