Someone brought this website to my attention, where I was named one of the "Best Marriage Counselors" in Long Beach 4 years in a row. I could not have the thriving private practice that I have if it weren't for my clients who are willing to...
Read moreHow gender stereotypes affect gay and lesbian relationships (but they don’t have to). Written by a lesbian therapist in Long Beach.
How gender stereotypes affect gay and lesbian relationships In a gay or lesbian relationship, gender stereotypes can have a negative impact. Stereotypically speaking, gay men are often depicted as weak, flamboyant, or over-the-top. Lesbians, on...
Read moreMy spouse isn’t supportive of my transgender child, how can I help?
My spouse isn’t supportive of my transgender child, how can I help? Parenting is a team effort, but that doesn’t mean you’re going to agree on everything. From whether or not to get a dog, to the right way to fold a towel, small...
Read moreLGBTQ Suicide Is A Plague That Can Be Stopped. Written by an LGBTQ therapist in Long Beach.
LGBTQ Suicide Is A Plague That Can Be Stopped. Written by an LGBTQ therapist in Long Beach. California legislators passed a bill (Bill (AB) 2246 ) that forces all schools to put suicide prevention plans in place for students in grades 7-12. The...
Read moreWhy Gender Neutral Bathrooms Are Important
Why Gender Neutral Bathrooms Are Important Recently, I heard a story of a young child who was in Kindergarten (this is a true story). They were trying to figure out their gender. They were born into a female body, but they felt like a boy...
Read moreDomestic Violence Takes On New Dimensions in LGBTQ Relationships. Written By An LGBTQ Therapist In Long Beach.
Domestic Violence Takes On New Dimensions in LGBTQ Relationships. Written By An LGBTQ Therapist In Long Beach. Domestic violence is a terrible problem for both LGBTQ people and their straight counterparts. It’s a potentially deadly situation...
Read moreHow do I explain a gay family member to my kids?
How do I explain a gay family member to my kids? A lot of people seem to have this question, however typically kids are okay with what their parents are okay with. So, unless they ask, you don’t have to explain it. If you were going to visit...
Read moreHow do I have the sex talk with my gay child? Written by a couples therapist in Long Beach.
How do I have the sex talk with my gay child? Written by a couples therapist in Long Beach. I will be giving information to consider for not only gay kids, but for all kids. I get this question a lot from parents who have a child who is in the...
Read moreThings To Know Before You Start Hormone Therapy
Things To Know Before You Start Hormone Therapy If you’re just beginning your transition, it’s a meaningful time. But it’s also a time of uncertainty. Odds are, there aren’t many people around you who can tell you what to expect. Hormone...
Read moreTips On Coming Out To Your Family As Bisexual
Tips On Coming Out To Your Family As Bisexual Many people think coming out as bisexual is the same as coming out as gay or lesbian. Some even think it’s easier. But that couldn’t be further from the truth. Unlike gay people, bisexual people face...
Read moreFinding A Gay Friendly Therapist In Long Beach
Finding A Gay Friendly Therapist In Long Beach Whether or not you are out of the closet with your parents, friends, or at work; having your therapist understand the issues that are unique to you is important. You should not ever feel...
Read moreHow To Help Support My Transgendered Child
How To Help Support My Transgendered Child Parenting is a difficult task and most parents get conflicting advice, depending on who they ask. Having your son come to you wanting to wear a dress or your daughter wanting to use the boys bathroom at...
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