How can I get my spouse to help me around the house? This is a very common complaint of married people. I actually was talking to another parent at my child’s school and had this actual conversation. She said that she gets mad because her husband never cleans the kitchen and that when she comes
I’m so annoyed with my partner!! What can I do? As much as you might absolutely adore your partner… There are just some things that really make your blood boil. It might be the food container put back empty (Who does that?), how they squeeze the toothpaste from the middle of the tube, or zoning
How to learn how to be a better person by watching a man….LOL The lol part was so women will actually read this blog post. First let me say that I believe that society influences men and women in different ways. Because many people frown at boys who play with dolls and girls who want
Living as an Introvert in an Extroverted Culture Modern culture tends to favor extroverts, viewing introverts as quiet, aloof, difficult to talk to, or even downright rude. Introverts have a hard-enough time interacting with people just due to their nature, and this stereotype doesn’t help. Despite this, with the right frame of mind, introverts have
How do I deal with my in-laws during the holidays? Dealing with In-Laws Over the Holidays A big part of the fun and excitement of the holiday season is getting to spend some time with your family. That is, of course, assuming that everyone gets along, which is not something that you can always guarantee
Even Happy People Seek Therapy There’s a common misconception that only people who are miserable or mentally ill seek therapy. However, just like people who aren’t sick might see a doctor to make sure they stay strong and healthy, happy people often see a therapist to help them stay mentally strong and healthy. Therapy can
How to end a relationship without regrets? Tips from a relationship counselor in Long Beach. (Caution: You might learn something that makes you not want to end your relationship and you might be stuck in a happy relationship for the rest of your life.) How to end a relationship without regrets? Apologize for your
How can I be nice without being a doormat? Tips from a couples therapist in Long Beach. I have many clients who come in to see me and they talk about how people tend to take advantage of them. They say “my roommate eats my food without asking”, “my in-laws assume that I will do
How Can I Stop Fighting With My Spouse? Tips From A Couples Counselor In Long Beach. Many couples come in to my office and tell me that they had a huge argument but can’t remember what the argument was about. At the time of the argument they were willing to use the word “divorce”, yet
How to deal with problematic in-laws? Tips from a couples therapist in Long Beach. In-laws. This is a very tricky topic because you have to consider your partners needs and feelings. First you should know that it is always okay to stand up for yourself in a kind, non-blaming, non-angry way (this includes your words,
